For All Women Who Have Had, Want or Are Going Through Abortion

A quick question for women who’ve just had an abortion, considering having one, or are going through one… To sum it up, I just found a lot of writings I had from during that time, both before, during and after… They are very personal but I thought maybe that is what would hopefully make them worthy of considering… So to speak…. Please inbox me or email me your response if it is something that would help you. 🙂 If I get enough responses that these writings would help, I’ll happily share; despite the uncalled for, irrational hate anti’s will throw at me. I’m numb to them now, they are too brain dead for me to deal with so I don’t mind- I just thought I’d point out how kind these so called “pro-life” and “Anti Abortion, Christian” folk are. One more reason their opinion doesn’t matter. That, and the fact they don’t base their thinking on reality and facts but instead on fantasies and personal views. Ahem- sorry. Video below 🙂

Also! anyone who follows this page for the abortion/women side, I’ll be posting up my new website which will be strictly for women regarding abortion, domestic violence/abuse, rape (men as well- anyone who is a victim to either), women’s health, etc. I’ll have it up shortly, just a few more things I wanna finish up with it before I put it up on here.

And as I said, this site will remain; but mainly for issues such as police brutality, government abuse, racism, and other socio-political related topics.

Update on Upcoming Project(s) RE: Women’s Health, Abortion & The Forgotten…

…And the forgotten. That was me, searching for answers, looking for other women who felt as I was feeling during pregnancy. I searched the internet for hours, not knowing the terms to look for, being faced with ridiculous and religious hate posts instead discouraged me from seeking out other women who had been in (or still was) in the place I was in.

I was then pregnant for the first time, and didn’t fully come to terms with this reality until a few weeks in when I began to feel the changes and realize me and my husband’s life would change forever. Not only this, but it strengthened my flashbacks and other mental issues. I continued to search for anyone to talk to about everything; the situation I was in.

But depression during pregnancy still was something the majority of people only spoke of as being “antenatal depression” and I could find very little at the time I needed it most on mental health, pregnancy and abortion. I wanted my pregnancy done, or my life over.

So, the reason I am going to write on depression, mental health and abortion is because that was a huge part of my story, and I hope to offer women a place on my site to see they are not alone nor are they evil for how they feel.

In my opinion, why a woman has an abortion is her own, and that’s all there is to it. If it is right for you for, reason does not matter. It doesn’t mean you are any more right or wrong for having an abortion. The above photo/quote is the truth about abortion for it is no one’s business but your own, and abortion is a medical procedure; nothing more.

But the reason I am speaking about myself at the moment is again, because

10 Myths Regarding Birth Control ….

This is taken from Women’s Health Magazine but is something I think everyone -especially women- need to know and remember… In the future I hope to have a section up dedicated solely to myths regarding not only birth control but also abortion, health care as well as police brutality and the war on drugs… Until then, here is the first myth exposing article 🙂 link to original post at bottom.

Myth #1: The Pill makes you gain weight
Reality: The truth is, it might depend on your prescription. In 2011, researchers at the Cochran Database System Review analyzed 49 studies that compared a variety of birth control methods with placebos and found no evidence that birth control causes weight gain. However, a 2009 study in the American Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology found that women using the Depo-Provera shot gained an average of 11 pounds and increased their body fat by 3.4 percent over three years, though they’re not sure what caused this effect. If you’re concerned about gaining weight, talk to your doctor about the best option for you.

Myth #2: You don’t need to be on birth control if you’re breastfeeding.
Reality: This very common myth is totally false—and probably to blame for many unplanned pregnancies—says Mary Jane Minkin, M.D., clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Yale University School of Medicine. The truth: breastfeeding exclusively (without supplementing with formula) can suppress the hormones from the pituitary gland that make you ovulate, says Minkin. So while there’s certainly a dip in your fertility at this time, it’s nowhere near foolproof. “And if you breastfeed sometimes while supplementing with formula, all bets are off,” says Minkin.

Myth #3: You have to take the Pill at the same time every day.
Reality: Despite what you may have heard, taking the Pill at the same time each day does not make it more effective, says Vanessa Cullins, M.D., Vice President for External Medical Affairs at Planned Parenthood. This common belief is only true if you’re taking the mini-pill (a progestin-only birth control pill which must be taken at the same time every day), however the majority of women take the regular birth control pill, which contains a combination of estrogen and progestin. That said, you might want to stick to a strict schedule if you have trouble remembering to take it or if you’re on a very low-dose form of the Pill, as you may experience some breakthrough bleeding, says Alyssa Dweck, M.D., co-author of V is For Vagina.

Myth #4: Being on the Pill for a long time will make it harder to get pregnant later.
Reality: It might seem hard to believe, but it’s possible to get pregnant as soon as you stop taking birth control, says Minkin. This holds true for all methods of hormonal contraceptives, with the exception of the Depo-Provera shot. It can take up to 6-9 months for all of the hormones in the shot to leave your body before your fertility is restored. That said, it’s still possible to get pregnant during this time, so don’t count on this buffer period for contraception. The bottom line: Birth control will not screw with your fertility long term, says Minkin.

Myth #5: Newer forms of birth control aren’t as safe as the older brands.
Reality: You may have heard that newer forms of birth control—like Yasmin, Yaz, or NuvaRing—come with more hormones and more health risks than the old standbys. The truth is, the newer the birth control, the fewer hormones it contains, says Minkin. And while some studies have shown a slightly higher risk of blood clots in women taking newer forms of birth control, the increase is extremely low and still much lower than your risk of developing a clot while pregnant, says Minkin.

Myth #6: You shouldn’t get an IUD unless you’ve already had children.
Reality: Anyone looking for super-effective pregnancy prevention should talk to their gyno about the IUD—even if they haven’t had a kid yet. The reason for this misconception is that some forms of the IUD (like Mirena and ParaGuard) are generally recommended for women with children, since your cervix and uterus are slightly larger after giving birth, which should make implantation and use more comfortable, says Minkin. However, a newer IUD called Skyla is slightly smaller and delivers a lower dose of hormones, making it perfect for non-moms, too. Plus, the IUD is 99 percent effective at preventing pregnancy—so don’t knock it just because you’re childless.

Myth #7: It’s unhealthy to use birth control to skip your period.
Reality: It may seem sneaky and taboo to manipulate your monthly flow by taking two months of pills back to back—but the truth is, it’s totally safe. “If you are a good candidate to be on birth control in the first place—you’re healthy, you don’t have high blood pressure that’s uncontrolled, you’re not over 35 or a smoker—then you are indeed a candidate for fiddling around with your cycle,” says Minkin. Just be prepared for some breakthrough bleeding, which is more likely if you just started a new pill, if you’re on a tri-phasic pill (like Ortho Tri-Cyclen), or if you delay it for more than a month or two. Click here for more tips on safely skipping your period.

Myth #8: Using a condom seriously diminishes his pleasure.
Reality: Forget what you’ve heard about condoms screwing with your sex life. Both men and women enjoy sex with condoms just as much as they do without them, according to a recent study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine. So if you’re looking for a hormone-free birth control method, don’t be swayed by the myth that condoms can kill the moment. Check out these pleasure-enhancing options, and keep a stash at your place. That way, you’ll be prepared if a guy tries to use one of these lines to avoid wrapping it up.

Myth #9: All birth control is now free.
Reality: While the Affordable Care Act is changing the way you’re charged for birth control, that doesn’t necessarily mean that all contraception is totally gratis all the time. There are still a few glitches, and you may need to check with your employer or insurance agency to find out what is covered and when, says Minkin. For instance, your insurance may only cover a generic version of your pill or they may not cover anything until you renew your plan. And according to final rules passed in June 2013, religious organizations may be exempt from covering birth control for their employees.

Myth #10: Your body needs a break from birth control.
Reality: The only reason to take a vacation from your contraceptives is if you’re hoping to get pregnant. Other than that, you can stay on your chosen method of birth control for as long as you want, says Minkin. The only exception: Depo-Provera, the birth control shot. Because it’s been linked to a greater potential for bone mineral loss, the FDA advises that women only take it continuously for two years.

And while there are plenty of health benefits from being on the Pill, a 1996 analysis of more than 50 studies found that taking birth control was associated with a slightly increased risk of breast cancer, though the risk disappeared after being off the Pill for 10 years. More research is needed, but it’s worth talking to your gyno if you’re concerned.

Original article HERE.

Abortion Won’t Go Away – Legal or Not… So…

It is very depressing for me to hear that the sickening Governor Rick Perry, TX, (R) has signed such an anti-woman, anti-choice, anti-medical and anti-health care bill. I have no doubt women will fight, I have no doubt the women of Texas will; but I also believe we as a people need to inform ourselves.

The Attack on Abortion and Women Continues, Will Only Harm Women

So, let’s be honest; this isn’t about health care, this is about closing a great deal of abortion clinics and following the majority of anti’s religious beliefs, not on the healthcare of women nor on the rights of women.

Last night, Texas state Governor Rick Perry (R), a disgrace to any progression in women’s rights I believe, forced through SB5 which if passed by the House will close all but five abortion clinics in Texas. How is the closing of health clinics going to help better the health of women? Since he has proposed dozens (literally) of anti-choice bills and been denied them all, he forced SB5 to go through at a time and in a manner under which new procedural rules apply, leaving democrats; i.e., those blocking, at a major disadvantage.

Senate Bill 5, SB5, contains and combines multiple restrictions regarding abortion that

Religious “Man” in Indiana Attempts Physical Attack on Planned Parenthood

Killing is wrong!!! Is what you hear from so many “anti-choicers.” Their “religion” tells them it’s “wrong” (wonder what would happen if they didn’t have those commandments to remind them not to kill, because even with them…). A so called “man” in Bloomington, Indiana, is in custody of the cops after going to a local Planned Parenthood clinic early in the morning, vandalizing it with red paint while it was closed, and then waiting there…with an ax.

A Few Pro-Choice Graphics I Enjoy

Random Post of Images I Like. *None of the Following Are My Copyright. Just Random Things I Agree With, Found Overtime, Online. *

I cannot currently sit & write out what I am working on –will have that post uploaded ASAP!  (today or tonight)- I figured I would share some graphics which share how I feel- I do not claim right to any of these images, just ones I have collected online over time 🙂

Soon I will have my own photo on here, as well, to show my support of abortion. Until then, I’d like to just say- I do NOT regret the CHOICE I made when I had my abortion because it was right for me.

Don’t listen to the anti-choice. I am, as are many other women, better off mentally & physically (I.e., I didn’t kill myself because I had access to abortion health care… Access they want to take away). It’s not murder. You’re not “evil” – the hardest choice to make is this choice, but this does not make it the wrong choice.

It takes strength to do the RIGHT thing in a world like we live in. Honestly, no one should explain why they had an abortion. It’s their choice, their privacy and should remain their most very basic right as a woman!

Regardless of why- it’s frankly no one else’s business! And I love the below quote. It pretty much sums it all up, I believe. Or, it should. 

Posts shall be back up shortly!

– I am against adoption for my own personal reasons… And socially, I think it’s wrong also. But I think the choice should be there… Just not forced…. Same as abortion. Don’t agree? Fine, don’t have one. But those of us who do support it should have the right to choose, too!

Pro-Choice is Pro-Life. Anti- Choice is Pro-DEATH.

Pretty simple. Each individual person making their own choice regarding their own body. Makes. Sense. To me. It seems to be not only an attack on women’s rights by men who will never be pregnant as well as a handful of crazy “women”.

It also seems very obvious to be the annoying, religious zealots whom are attempting to force their “belief system” into every woman and family in America. Why it is even a debate or argument baffles me…we can disagree, but to enact laws that put women’s lives in imminent danger?? That seems a bit pro-death to me.

Pro-life is being pro-choice….plain and simple. Let it save those who chose, and those who don’t want anything to do with it for whatever reason, let them ignore it. But from my point of view, it is not something that should be a legal discussion- much less made into a law which will result in deaths, just as before Roe v Wade.