For All Women Who Have Had, Want or Are Going Through Abortion

A quick question for women who’ve just had an abortion, considering having one, or are going through one… To sum it up, I just found a lot of writings I had from during that time, both before, during and after… They are very personal but I thought maybe that is what would hopefully make them worthy of considering… So to speak…. Please inbox me or email me your response if it is something that would help you. 🙂 If I get enough responses that these writings would help, I’ll happily share; despite the uncalled for, irrational hate anti’s will throw at me. I’m numb to them now, they are too brain dead for me to deal with so I don’t mind- I just thought I’d point out how kind these so called “pro-life” and “Anti Abortion, Christian” folk are. One more reason their opinion doesn’t matter. That, and the fact they don’t base their thinking on reality and facts but instead on fantasies and personal views. Ahem- sorry. Video below 🙂

Also! anyone who follows this page for the abortion/women side, I’ll be posting up my new website which will be strictly for women regarding abortion, domestic violence/abuse, rape (men as well- anyone who is a victim to either), women’s health, etc. I’ll have it up shortly, just a few more things I wanna finish up with it before I put it up on here.

And as I said, this site will remain; but mainly for issues such as police brutality, government abuse, racism, and other socio-political related topics.

All Pro-Choice and Abortion Supporters, Mississippi Needs You Now! Please Share!

Attention all who support choice and abortion!! The women of Mississippi need your help! See the flyer below and visit WAKEUPMISSISSIPPI.ORG  for more information! Please don’t let them down! This is a war on all women across the USA. We must fight back! Solidarity! (Click on image if it appears blurry below for a full sized image =])

 

Expose the Dangerous, Cold Lies of Crisis Prenancy Centers (CPC)

(Note: THIS WEBSITE WILL BE ACTIVE STILL- MAINLY FOCUSING ON WAR ON PEOPLE/DRUGS, POLICE BRUTALITY, ETC) While this site will remain active as a site dedicated to police brutality, harmful laws, the war on the people er the war on drugs, etc, I am currently working on separate website that will be dedicated solely to news dedicated to the struggle for women’s rights, including rights for abortion and against domestic violence. I will have that link up soon along with changes to this page made.

In the mean time, I thought I’d post this up in hopes of anyone out there thinking of going to one of these “Crisis Pregnancy Centers” will think twice.

Also, be sure to check out this link where more the lies spewed by Ken Cuccinelli and his supporters are exposed and really, seeing the video or reading the text – either way – it is clear to see how messed up these people are in the head. Nicest way of putting it.

Oh and as a side note, having an abortion did not ruin my life. It wasn’t the most fun thing I’ve done, all women feel differently and that’s okay… But for me, almost a year later, I can say I feel a great RELIEF because I know without a doubt (as I did then) that it was the right choice. Not just for me, but morally. Abortion is not evil, it is not wrong. Stay strong and listen to your HEART – no one else.

A few months ago I made a video explaining why that day I became so aware of the right choice I had made by having a late term abortion. You can view it by clicking HERE. I must note, I ramble a lot in videos lol I am not the best at speaking on camera, but I’m working on it! Maybe in time… 🙂 _ Still plan to have that abortion question / answer video up! Everything has just taken so much longer than I had planned for!

Dangerous Lies Told by Anti-Choice “Crisis Pregnancy Centers”

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Ali on August 15, 2013 12:37 PM

Have you ever seen advertisements that read “Pregnant? Scared?” or offer free pregnancy tests? Those are marketing tactics by anti-choice “crisis pregnancy centers” (CPCs) aimed at luring women through their doors in order to deceive and shame them out of choosing abortion.

NARAL Pro-Choice Virginia Foundation recently investigated CPCs in their state to expose the lies and misinformation CPC employees tell women.

Here are a few of the most egregious lies that CPCs tell women who believe they’re getting honest medical advice, debunked:

CPC Lie #1: Abortion causes breast cancer.

Truth: This claim has been refuted by the American Cancer Society, the American Medical Association, and the National Cancer Institute. The most respected scientific studies all show that abortion care does NOT increase a woman’s risk of breast cancer.

CPC Lie #2: Abortion will ruin your chances of having children in the future.

Truth: Another unfounded claim. The Guttmacher Institute explains, “The preponderance of evidence from well-designed and well-executed studies shows no connection between abortion and future fertility problems.” And according to the Mayo Clinic, abortion (both surgical and medical) does NOT harm a woman’s chance of getting pregnant or having a healthy pregnancy in the future.

CPC Lie #3: Abortion is extremely dangerous.

Truth: The National Abortion Federation reports that legal abortion is one of the safest medical procedures performed in the U.S. today. Of the women who received early care – when the majority of women end their pregnancies – “97% percent of women report no complications, and less than 0.5% have more serious complications that require some additional surgical procedure and/or hospitalization.” In fact, the complication rate of legal, medically supervised, first-trimester abortion in the United States is significantly lower than the complication rate of most other common outpatient procedures.

CPC Lie #4: Having an abortion will ruin your life.

Truth: The decision to end a pregnancy is a deeply personal one and can elicit a wide variety of emotions, but research has found that “[w]hile some women may experience sensations of regret, sadness or guilt after an abortion, the overwhelming responses are relief and happiness.” Another Guttmacher study found that most women do not feel regret after having an abortion procedure. In order to make the best decision for her and her family, a woman must have accurate and comprehensive information. If CPC employees really cared about women’s mental health, they wouldn’t subject them to coercion and shame.

These lies are designed to scare women out of choosing abortion care. When a woman doesn’t have honest information about her options, it could endanger her reproductive health. And it’s happening across the country. There are 34 states that currently support these dangerous centers with taxpayer dollars. Is your state one of them?

Taken from BLOGFORCHOICE

Abortion is a Not Evil and Anti’s Are Not Pro-Life

I don’t understand why more people are not upset and outraged over how this world is; from police brutality to lack of women’s rights as well the stigma placed upon important things such as abortion, mental illness, etc.  What I am currently furious about is the term “Pro-Life” being used by anti-choicers. Here is why.

Abortion Video & Articles Coming up- My Apologies (Quick Video )

Just a quick video explaining why the abortion questions video and other articles have been delayed! Will have articles and the video up today/tonight sometime. And as I note in the video, thank you so called ‘pro-lifers’ for wishing bad upon me simply because you disagree with me. I disagree strongly with you and would fight to my death for what I believe in, but I wish no ill or harm to anyone. Your words of hate towards me during a hard time only further prove my point that most pro”life” or more accurately termed “antis” have no interest in the well being of fellow humans, thus making the hateful words you say to pro-abortion and pro-choice activists alike even more irrelevant than before. I hope people remember that and take it into consideration the next time they go off on one of their hate filled rants or speeches about masturbating fetuses. (That argument was too stupid- I’m not gonna bother explaining their lack of logic.)

Research by Gov. Regarding Abortion Proves Anti’s & Government Are Using Lies/Myths to Scare Women

“Based on the evidence provided by states themselves, it is more than a little misleading for the House Judiciary Committee to suggest that newborn children are being murdered by abortion providers with regularity and abandon; it is myth-making and fear-mongering.“

As I always say: abortion is not murder! Abortion doesn’t make you a bad person, regardless of your reason. Do what is best for you; what  you know in your heart to be right.

Gosnell does not represent the vast majority of abortion providers. Yet, anti-choicers seem to be so very eager to make the claim that he in fact is; which is disrespectful and demeaning to all the real providers…not to mention, it is a full blown lie. Yes, looking out for fake clinics is very important. Fake clinics (click there for more information) such as Clinic Pregnancy Centers, Birthright, and Pregnancy Aid, are the most well known and anyone confronted by someone working with them should turn around and walk away. I have compiled an ongoing list of abortion resources for all different kinds of situations and locations, as well as funding help… this can be found by clicking here.

I am going to copy and past over research compiled into a beautiful article/essay explaining exactly why the MYTH that abortion is murder is just that… a lie, a tactic to control people and their view on what is real and what is not by using fear tactics and lies. Don’t be misinformed.

(Links as well as links to the information they used for this article follow post)

Disproven: The Myth of Infants ‘Born Alive’ After Abortions

Update on Upcoming Project(s) RE: Women’s Health, Abortion & The Forgotten…

…And the forgotten. That was me, searching for answers, looking for other women who felt as I was feeling during pregnancy. I searched the internet for hours, not knowing the terms to look for, being faced with ridiculous and religious hate posts instead discouraged me from seeking out other women who had been in (or still was) in the place I was in.

I was then pregnant for the first time, and didn’t fully come to terms with this reality until a few weeks in when I began to feel the changes and realize me and my husband’s life would change forever. Not only this, but it strengthened my flashbacks and other mental issues. I continued to search for anyone to talk to about everything; the situation I was in.

But depression during pregnancy still was something the majority of people only spoke of as being “antenatal depression” and I could find very little at the time I needed it most on mental health, pregnancy and abortion. I wanted my pregnancy done, or my life over.

So, the reason I am going to write on depression, mental health and abortion is because that was a huge part of my story, and I hope to offer women a place on my site to see they are not alone nor are they evil for how they feel.

In my opinion, why a woman has an abortion is her own, and that’s all there is to it. If it is right for you for, reason does not matter. It doesn’t mean you are any more right or wrong for having an abortion. The above photo/quote is the truth about abortion for it is no one’s business but your own, and abortion is a medical procedure; nothing more.

But the reason I am speaking about myself at the moment is again, because

Young Girls Request for Father to Not Be Deported Rejected, Met With Applause – Video

How many bets these are all so called “pro life” and “anti abortion” fools? This is disgusting- and heart breaking. Poor little girl- but what a BRAVE girl- I am inspired by her. And I am even more outraged by these so called “humans”- they say they care about a fetus -which is not a child nor baby may I add-; but obviously they don’t care about treating children with love and kindness.

The description under the video reads,

Josie rose and took the mic, and in a trembling voice, said:

“Mr. Desjarlais, I have papers but my daddy doesn’t, what can you do to make sure he can stay?”

Rep. Desjarlais rebuked her request to a round of applause from the audience, but Josie and her family will keep on fighting to stop his deportation.

The video, under a minute long, follows. DISGUSTING.

Women in America, We Cannot Forget Irish Women in Need of Abortion… Solidarity

Worldwide, women are being tortured because of denial of medical services; medical services that have been in practice for thousands of years (more on that in a soon to come post).

Few Answers to Anti Comments on my Abortion Video :-)

Things have been so busy lately it wasn’t until tonight I checked my YouTube account and found some surprise comments on my abortion video (see below)

I received some very kind messages and comments, as well as ones that made me feel as if maybe I can make a difference sharing my story; the number of people doesn’t matter. To the people who are kind and interested, I owe so many thanks to.

Of course, I got plenty of hate comments too from “Anti’s” – I didn’t read them, have no intention to, I deleted them but I did skim over enough to see some of what they asked so I’m going to give yet another brief post about why having an abortion is not evil, for those who have very thick heads. Let’s begin!